Dancing alone.

I have to admit, I’ve been on a small hiatus as of late.  Mother Nature’s constant mood swings have left me feeling blasé and my newfound obsession with pinterest.com has fulfilled my constant need for creative purging.  So, needless to say, writing has taken the back seat… until today that is. Leave it to Facebook … Continue reading

I’m not ready for a new last name…

I ain’t ready for a new last name I don’t wanna be nobody’s ball and chain A reason for a Friday night poker game I don’t wanna be another desperate housewife Doing dirty laundry on a Saturday night I don’t wanna be somebody’s : “Baby, bring me another Bud light” Whatever!

And we all fall down.

Over the weekend, two close friends and I jumped in a Mustang and took off.  Destination: Canada, Windsorto be exact.  While some single women may be intimidated by the thought of falling into the dreaded third wheel zone, travelling with this couple was a blast and sans cutesy, awkward couples-only moments.  After toasting to champagne, … Continue reading

The Glamour of Life: My DOs and DON’Ts

  As a young teenager, I couldn’t wait to open the crisp pages of a new glossy Glamour magazine.  With my hands gliding gently over the latest high-fashion looks, I would become immersed in a culture of luxury, beauty and, well, glamour.  It was all so rich—the high-brow of the cityscapes, the glitz of Hollywood … Continue reading

Are you settling?

Some people are settling down, some people are settling and some people refuse to settle for anything less than butterflies.   —Sex in the City

It’s OK. Set yourself free.

“Maybe some women aren’t meant to be tamed. Maybe they just need to run free til they find someone just as wild to run with them.”–SATC  

Single in the City: 5 Signs He’s a Commitment Phobe

Since being freed from my past, I’ve been single in the city.  While the old adage goes that “all is fair in love and war,” new trends have occurred in the dating pool that makes me wonder how fair men truly are these days.  Any woman that has dated has encountered the dreaded commitment phobe.  … Continue reading

The Beauty of Letting Go: Five Ways to Move on

The days following the end of a real romance are anything but pretty—they are, at best, sloppy.  As those long days of to-call-or-not-to-call, or in some cases, to-stalk-or-not-to-stalk linger by, months begin to pile up and before you know it, your life has transformed  into the black abyss that was once a happy little union.  … Continue reading

You Couldn’t Walk a Mile in These Shoes…

“It’s really hard to walk in a single woman’s shoes — that’s why you sometimes need really special shoes!” –Carrie Bradshaw                              (All Images Reblogged from VisualizeUs)

V-Day is ‘Me-Day’

For all the amazing women out there, plant your own garden and be your own Valentine “Comes the Dawn” Veronica A. Shoffstall After a while you learn the subtle difference Between holding a hand and chaining a soul, and you learn that love doesn’t mean leaning, and company doesn’t mean security, and you begin to … Continue reading